Elizabeth and Danny's Wedding at Twisted Oak Estate

“
I believe that if life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade... And try to find somebody whose life has given them vodka, and have a party.”

— Ron White

What a weekend you guys! You cannot beat an October wedding at Twisted Oak Estate! But add to that mix a high school reunion and you’ve yourself a party! I graduated with Danny, far too many years ago, so we had a ton of mutual friends at the wedding. And since he and Elizabeth have been together for 16 years now, she’s been a part of the crew from the beginning. I think if there was one permeating theme to all conversations through the weekend, it was, “it’s about time!” Lol. All their friends were so very happy to give them shit every chance they got whether in private or during open toasts, but they took it in stride and were simply so happy to be surrounded by those they love the most.

There was very little to “tradition” this weekend. They invited a few close family and friends to the ceremony portion and had alllllll the rest join an hour later for the shenanigans. Zero “formal” events were planned. They had food, alcohol and a band, they knew the rest would sort itself out. And that it did! Sunset portraits, dancing, tons of heartfelt toasts, dollar bills flying around everywhere and absolute joy.

The mountains decided to show off all weekend kicking off the changing colors and giving us perfect weather. Every single person was simply so happy to be present and celebrating their dear friends and catching up with the rest.

You guys! I had the MOST fun celebrating with you and the crew! Let’s do it again soon!!

The Insta Handles for the vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue: @twistedoakestate

Coordinator: @eventsbyelizabethashley

Dress: @ladiesoflineage

Rings: @kayjewelers

HMU: @canvasboone

Florals: @fuschiamossfloral

Officiant: Paul Johnston 

Band: @bandfortune5

Catering: @trickynkky with @villagehospitalitygroup

Desserts: @stickboybreadco (or publix)

Watercolor Artist: @marykanepaints

What is the Cost of a Wedding Photographer?

I’ll never remember where I heard this quote, but I recently heard, “Cost is what you pay, value is what you get.” And boy did that strike a cord. Yes, this is a “job” and as workers we need to get paid, so there is a cost involved. But the VALUE you receive on the other side is often priceless.

It’s difficult to explain in a simple pricing document what you are receiving for the thousands of dollars you’re about to spend. You see things like $4,800 for 10 hours (or $480/hour) and may feel that’s pricey for an hourly rate. But the other side of this one simple element is that for every hour of shooting there are also 3 hours of editing. Now it’s more like $120/hour. That may still seem pricey considering hourly wages in various professions. This does not even take into consideration the cost of gear, website and gallery hosting, taxes, marketing etc. That’s just the cost of doing business.

But here’s where the real value comes in.

Let’s assume you love your photographer’s shooting and editing style (why you’re on their site to begin with) and assuming you love their personality if you’ve already met or shared a phone call and you’ll know you’ll be comfortable with them in your face for 10 hours… if you don’t, go ahead and move on, this is minimum requirement.

What else is at stake?

How many years of wedding experience do they actually have, and why does this matter? I just had a newbie photographer message me saying she’s shooting her first wedding in a couple weeks and said she has an extra battery and an extra SD card, then asked what else she might need? Where do I even begin???? First of all, you need a camera with 2 card slots so it’s shooting to one and backing up everything to a second to mitigate corruption. Second, an actual second camera with same feature in case the first one gets dropped or otherwise broken at any point. This is minimal. You need light stands and flashes for indoor shooting. You need your laptop so you can further back up the images to another location before you leave the premises. Not a requirement, but a real pro will also have extra umbrellas and waterproof covers for their gear in case of rain (not to mention a knowledge of HOW to shoot in the rain or snow). They’ll have flat lay backgrounds for all the pretty details and an extra wooden hanger for the wedding dress. This is simple standard.

More importantly, they’ll have experience from hundreds of wedding timelines turned into chaos when makeup goes over time and they’ll be able to pivot on a dime to adjust any and all portraits to catch everything back up so you walk down the aisle on time. They’ll have so much experience working with people, they’ll just intuitively know when a special moment is about to happen and be ready to capture it. (think private chat with dad causing one tear to roll down his cheek, or grandma whispering something sassy to mom causing a riotous laugher to follow). They will be acutely aware of the sunset timing, and if that timing needs to be adjusted due to the sun “setting early” behind a mountain, building or trees. They know to stand in as your bodyguard if you’re getting overwhelmed by your guests and gently pull you aside “for more photos” simply to give you space to breathe. I could go on and on really. There is SO much more to it than just owning a fancy camera.

Let’s talk delivery time.

The first wedding I shot almost 2 decades ago took me SIXTEEN weeks to deliver because I did not know how to edit well yet, I was in school and had another job. Industry standard for most pros these days is 6-8 weeks. I personally guarantee 2 weeks but typically get it done in 7 days. Not to mention Day-Of Teasers to enjoy before you even make it to the dance floor. ;)

So is the VALUE worth the COST? You tell me. If you’re ready to have a conversation you can message me HERE! Can’t wait to hear all about your vision for the big day!

Brooke and Logan's Wedding at Overlook Barn

Brooke and Logan spared no expense for their GORGEOUS wedding at Overlook Barn this weekend! Roan Weddings and Events pulled every single detail together for them flawlessly: breathtaking florals from Golden Thistle Design, Live art from Almond Tree, and Split Second Sound brought a DJ and full band mix to the reception making it truly a night to remember!

These two babes met the good fashioned way, at a bar while hanging with all their friends ;) They didn’t make it official until they were actually living in different states, but no distance could keep them apart. They’ve had quite a journey these past few years, and it all culminated together with their family and friends this weekend in their biggest celebration yet! Their crew absolutely understood the assignment and supported them through every emotional moment and brought the PARTY into the evening. Everyone was talking about it being the best wedding ever as they wished them congrats at the end of the night, and of course joined them for the after party!

You guys! I cannot thank you enough for trusting us with your special day! It was absolutely one for the books and I hope we can do it again soon!

The Instagram Handles for the Vendors who made the day possible!

Photographer: @cynthiajviola with @silverseasweddings

Venue: @Overlookbarn

Planner: @roanweddingandevents

HMU: @makeupboss

Floral design: @goldenthistledesign

DJ: @splitsecondsound

Video: @honeydewfilms

Photobooth: @helloredbird_photobooth

Catering and Bar: @gadabouts_catering

Cake: @williams_delibakery

Rentals: @abushelandapeckvintagerentals

Transportation: @highcountrylimo

Live Painter: @almondtreeart

Ceremony and Cocktail Music: @summitstringsquartet

Rehearsal: @thebarnatcornerstone

Best Location for Photos in Raleigh / Durham

“Happiness, not in another place, but this place. Not for another hour, but this hour.”

— Walt Whitman

Whether you’re here for a family session, engagement session, as a graduating senior, surprise proposal, extended family, or anniversary, there are several things to consider in your photography location. If you’re looking for a natural backdrop there are several parks in the area. If you’d like something more neutral, maybe for headshots, there are great building backdrops as well as studios that can be rented. If you’ve got 20 people to organize and at least half of them are not into the idea of shooting at all, maybe the driveway at your house will be just fine so long as everyone shows up. Whatever your situation, I’m happy to help you navigate what’s best for you. 

Time of day

I will forever be an advocate for Golden Hour. That can be the first 90 minutes of the day after the sun rises, or the last 90 before it sets. In the best conditions on a perfect day, you cannot beat light which is flattering in every way possible. Blue hour just before/after can also add a unique light to your images. If the sky is cloudy, really any time of day will look about the same, so we can be flexible if it’s calling for rain at a certain time. That said, our schedules don’t always align to make this time possible. If that’s the case I’ll help you navigate a location in the best lighting possible. Capturing the moment is more important than the light or the location.

Fred Fletcher Park. Raleigh. Easy Parking, no restrooms.

NC Museum of Art. Raleigh. Easy parking. Restrooms only available during open hours.

Duke Gardens. Durham. Parking and Restrooms. $150-$250 fee for photography permit in gardens.

WRAL Azalea Gardens. Raleigh. Easy Parking. No Restrooms.

The age/size of your crew

If this is an engagement session, the sky is the limit. If we’re talking 30 people of all generations, shapes and sizes, I will happily advise you on the locations that will accommodate you best. The various city parks tend to be best, particularly those with wide open spaces such as Joyner Park below, or the NC art Museum. You will know your crew better than me though, if we need to make it happen in your driveway simply to ensure everyone shows up, we can certainly make that work.

E Carroll Joyner Park, Wake Forest. Easy Parking, Restrooms.

Pullen Park. Raleigh. Easy Parking. Restrooms. Playground can be a reward after shoot, but also a distraction during ;)

JC Raulston Arboretum. Raleigh. Easy parking, restrooms. Sometimes closed for private events.

Not everything will go perfectly… and that’s perfectly fine. If it rains we will adapt. If you’re running behind, don’t let it ruin your day, I'm so easy going, I’m happy to get work done on my phone while I wait. If the dress doesn’t fit perfectly, maybe send me a quick photo of what’s wrong with it before you switch outfits, chances are I can fix it in photoshop. All that to say, if you just show up, as you are, willing to have a new experience, we will have a great time and make some memories no matter the circumstances. But if you show up stressed out, with various expectations of exactly how everything will play out… chances are you will be disappointed.

Backyard/driveway photos are perfectly fine if that’s easiest for your crew.

If your goal is simply to have fun and capture some memories, the location doesn’t really matter all that much, you can use your backyard or a parking lot like the ones above. The shoot will be what you make it. If you show up with a ton of energy and and simply play with your kids, the only thing you’ll see in the photos are their happy faces.

Various walking parks such as Eno River State Park, Umstead, and Durant Nature Preserve will all have a similar look to them with varying options such as trails, bridges, fences and water sources, so you can simply choose your favorite.

Various Walking Parks. Parking typically easy. Usually a restroom but not always.

Looking for something more urban/industrial? We have several options for that as well. Biggest factors tend to be parking especially on the weekend and evenings, but not insurmountable.

The Tobacco District in Downtown Durham. Parking varies. Restrooms inside restaurants. (Bonus: can grab drinks during shoot) ;)

Downtown Raleigh. Parking varies. Restrooms inside restaurants. (Bonus: can grab drinks during shoot) ;)

Raleigh Union Station. Paid parking on site when available, street parking nearby. Restrooms. Indoor shooting available. (Great for a rain backup)

Lafayette Village. North Raleigh. Parking can be a challenge in the evenings. Restrooms.

Senior sessions often involve the school where you’re graduating from, or the school you plan to attend the following year but they don’t have to. They also often include props relevant to your time at school from musical instruments to sporting gear, graduation gowns and uniforms, but again do not have to. We will discuss your goals for the session and make the best plan.

You may need to coordinate with your school if you’d like to use specific facilities or restrooms.

This list is certainly not exhaustive. Other great options include Dorothy Dix, Historic Oak View, Yates Mill, Coker Arboretum in Chapel Hill, Anderson Point and several others. I am open to anywhere you want to go whether I’ve been before or not. We will discuss all the things during booking and make the best plan!

So let’s just agree to show up as our most authentic selves and see what kind of adventure we can have. :)

Sarah and Pete's Wedding at Brown Mountain Beach Resort

Oh my goodness I have loved getting to know these two cuties from their engagement sesh on Clemson’s campus, and the super cute coffee shop where they met right up until their last dance on Brown Mountain Beach’s new deck!

Pete proposed in Sarah's last semester of vet school, but they knew from their first date at All In Coffee Shop that this would be forever. Sarah is an all too adorable fun loving adventurer like me, and Pete and I also hit it off due to our love of fast (manual transmission) cars and flying.

Fast forward to their absolutely perfect wedding day at Brown Mountain Beach Resort. After the resort received an unfathomable amount of damage from Hurricane Helene, we were all a little worried it wouldn’t be repaired in time for their big day. But those concerns went right out the window when the entire community rallied around them and helped with clean up and rebuilding from day one. I was absolutely taken aback at how beautiful the new deck and speakeasy came together and they even used the time to renovate new getting ready suites. Major blessing in disguise.

After a precious first look in the greenhouse, we had some fun on the beach with their crew then made our way to their heartfelt ceremony. Needless to say there were abundant tears from everyone involved.

After a sweet, quite picnic on the rocks we headed to the reception for more tearful speeches, first dances and a riotous dance party on the deck. They ended the evening with a bonfire on the beach and the blissful newlyweds are currently enjoying a much deserved honeymoon in Italy!

Thank you guys so much for including us on your special day! We had allll the fun and hope we can do it again soon!

The instagram handles for all the vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue: @brownmountainbeach

Dress: @lovelybridechs

Suit: Gentlemen's Gallery Inc

Rings: @coluccisjewelers & @jaredjewelers

HMU: @brushesandbraids

Florals: @the.edgemont.garden

Officiant: @noeltufts

DJ: @spinfire.dj

Catering: @plateperfectcatering

Desserts: @all_in_coffeeshop

Video: @shotbytrey

Christie and Alex's Wedding at Twickenham House and Hall

“I’m not good at making specific plans. Just meet me under the sky somewhere and be alive with me”

— Victoria Erickson

I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who’s loves snow as much as Christie and Alex. We went back and forth on engagement dates waiting for the PERFECT snow day, and all the effort paid off! Banner Elk was finally forecasted to receive several inches and we started planning. What started as fun snow ball fights and hikes around the The Banner Elk Mill Pond, ended in a romantic sunset on top of Beech Mountain. It set the perfect tone for their wedding day to come!

Fast forward to the big day. They reallllly wanted snow on their wedding day as well, so they chose December in the mountains. Twickenham House and Hall provided the most beautiful backdrop and while it didn’t snow the day of, it did one step better and snowed a couple days prior, ensuring the roads were accessible by the wedding day AND they still had snow on the ground for photos! Wins all around!

And those wins could not have arrived at a better time. The High Country endured the trauma of Hurricane Helene just a few weeks prior to the wedding washing out the road to their venue as well as countless others nearby. With many discussions about changing locations, we kept our fingers crossed and the road workers pulled through just in time! It was a grand celebration indeed!

Christie chose to have a first look with her father (complete with custom gift to her pops) as well as her excited bridesmaids. We had to take a couple quick warm ups inside the house in between of course ;)

Then Alex and Christie shared their first look together on the front lawn where we still had some snow followed by their sweet private vows and a sip of a special bottle of bourbon they had been saving for this day.

While the scenery was breathtaking, the temperature and winds were a little harsh the morning of the wedding so they made a quick switch from a cliffside ceremony to a backyard ceremony which was absolutely lovely. We took the happy couple up to the cliffs afterward for a few portraits and the rest of the evening was spent laughing, crying and dancing the night away. Wouldn’t change one thing, we had an absolute, blast you guys! Thank you for trusting us with your big day!

The Instagram Handles for the Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola with assistance from @jlrobertsphotography

Venue: @twickenhamhouse

Planning: @heatherlyeventdesign and @kelseystricklandevents

HMU: @justwingitartistry

DJ: @ultimatesounddjco

Catering: @morchellaprovisions 

Cake: @sassy_cat_bakery

Transportation: @wilcoxtravel

Cramer and Marc's Wedding at Daniel Stowe Botanical Gardens

Oh my goodness, when these two babes were greeted in the parking lot by their parents and grandmother with whoops and claps, hugs and kisses, I knew we were going to have a blast. We didn’t have a specific plan, we just knew to meet at the gardens and we’d figure out the rest. (my favorite plan)

After looking at the various gorgeous options Daniel Stowe Botanical Gardens had to offer, we decided the Orchid Conservatory was the best spot for the ceremony. We were surrounded by gorgeous flowers, butterflies and tiny frogs. And considering Cramer already had a tiny frog on his Mindy Lam Boutonnière, it was the perfect choice.

After the sweetest vows, we all erupted in cheers for the happy babes, signed the marriage certificate and strolled around the gardens for the rest of the photos. These two were playful, stylish and and super excited to celebrate with their family afterwards.

They shared a quick first dance in front of the conservatory then made their way to dinner where the rest of the family was waiting to celebrate with them. Highly recommend renting the gardens on a Monday for your sweet ceremony. Daniel Stowe reserves the gardens just for this purpose every week.

Thank you guys for trusting me with your memories!! Cheers!

Arianna and Mark's Wedding at the Historic Wakefield Barn

With so many of my recent weddings having to relocate or postpone due to the damage from Hurricane Helene, it was lovely showing up to Historic Wakefield Barn, as planned, with no last minute changes. I’ve been looking forward to capturing these babes for years now as I captured Arianna’s sister Halee’s wedding several years ago, followed by Arianna and her brother Dylan’s senior photos. As it turns out, she and Mark had already met and would become high school and college sweethearts!

They chose to have a first look with each other before the day began and also Arianna with her father, and Mark with his parents. It was a very sweet and heartfelt way to begin the day, then their crews joined them for some fun shenanigans to hype them up and we got the party started.

Earlier that morning they both wrote love letters to each other and during the ceremony placed the letters inside a box with wine to be opened on their anniversary. Such a beautiful forethought for their continued relationship together in the future. After the ceremony, they took a quick photo with Lola the mini horse then shared some private vows in the bridal suite. Their nearly 10 years together was evident in every word.

A night filled with joy, laughter, a few tears and a sparkler exit to send them on their way! Wouldn’t have missed it for anything! Love you guys!

The Instagram Handles for the Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue: @historicwakefieldbarn

Planner: @daniel.harmonyweddings

Dress: @vowdweddings

Suit: @josabank

Rings: @diademjewelers

Hair: Stephanie Woodworth

Florals: @brandisbotanicals 

Officiant: @hardisonperry

DJ: @dj_mass_appeal

Catering: @rocky_top_caters

Cake: @publix & @acheesecakelover

Rentals: @curatedeventsraleigh

Transportation: @lwtwhitehorse

Caitlin and Brett's Wedding at Legacy Stables and Events

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s about learning to dance in the rain”

— Vivian Greene

When Hurricane Helene swept devastation across our beautiful mountains two weeks before Caitlin and Brett’s wedding, it made their original venue inaccessible, however, they didn’t skip a beat. These two joy bombs reached out to their family and friends who all got to work to help them find another off the mountain. They had already planned the entire wedding themselves without a coordinator, and they had to do it all over again, but much faster. Luckily Legacy Stables in Winston Salem had an opening for their date and welcomed them with open arms and we were all so glad they did, just look at this gorgeous venue!

They had to find new hotels for all their guests and make sure their original vendors could make the drive off mountain, but they did so with such grace and kindness, first making sure everyone was ok and understanding entirely if the drive was not possible. They were a joy to work with every step of the way.

After their first look, they brought in their sweet babe Ollie for a few portraits, then their wedding party joined to get them hyped up to walk down the aisle. Everyone had a blast and showered them with love.

In nearly 20 years of capturing weddings, I’m not sure how it’s possible I’ve never seen this before, but they surprised everyone, including me, when Ethan, their ring bearer, walked down they aisle in full bear costume! Once it dawned on everyone why (ring bear), the whole room erupted in laughter and pure joy. After their beautiful, heartfelt vows and a few tears, they encouraged every guest to join them for a group photo before heading to cocktail hour. Everyone was so happy to oblige.

We whisked them away for a few sunset portraits right as the sun dipped behind the trees and then they were off to the dance floor ready to celebrate the happiest of days. We paused for a quick happy birthday to her father (she had asked all the guests to sign the card… so thoughtful) and then back to dancing. It was a perfect day.

Thank you so much for including us in your special day!

The instagram handles for the vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue: @legacystablesandevents (originally @beechmtnclub)

Florals: @sggarden 

DJ: @the_rusty_chad

Dress: @allurebridals, @stillwhite

Alterations: @becomingbridalnc

Cake: @lilycakesnc

Suit: @alexander_eton 

Rings: @mandlybands, @julietandoliver, @hollandsjewelers

HMU: @mirrorbomb & @deevamonroe

Shoes: @joyfolie

Earrings: @darethcolburndesigns

Jessica and Corey's Wedding at Twickenham House and Hall

It’s not often I get to capture a wedding in the middle of the week, but this Wednesday wedding at Twickenham House was an absolute delight. The hurricane that bore down on the area all week cleared literally just a couple hours before the ceremony, all the fog it brought with it lifted and we had the most beautiful day anyone could ask for.

Jessica chose to wear her mother’s wedding dress with a few alterations and it fit like a glove. Her father loved it so much and said she looked just as beautiful as her mother 37 years prior. As an extra special feature, her mom and sister sewed into the dress her “something blue.” They created a lace pocket with the leftover train material to place a photo of her Nana and Zadie wearing blue. Every guest who caught a peek went wild with love for them both.

Corey was a bit more quite and thoughtful during the preparations. As I hadn’t met him before today I wasn’t sure if this would remain his style all day, but I was blown away when the ceremony was over. He and Jessica danced their way through photos, climbed to the highest peak for the perfect shot, ran and skipped their way down to the shuttle and entered cocktail hour wildly in love and ready to party!

Together these two brought the party with them everywhere they went. Dragging friends into the photobooth and onto the dance floor, back to the patio for a quick drink then onto the dance floor again. They were showered with love and celebration by everyone and it was an absolutely unforgettable night.

You guys I cannot thank you enough for trusting me with your special day! Let’s do it again soon!

The Instagram handles for all the vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue & Catering: @twickenhamhouse

Planning: @kelseystricklandweddings

Hair: Haley 

Florals: Village Florist

Officiant: @revrichardtidyman

DJ: @ontargetdj

Social Media Curator: @furandlacephotography

Cake: @sassy_cat_bakery

Lisa and Mike's Wedding at The Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden

I met Lisa at Deanna and William’s wedding in 2022 and we hit it off right away. The cheeriest little babe ever, and so happy to help with anything and everything. When she messaged about the wedding I said yes right away! Then seeing her with Mike at their engagement session, I knew they were meant to be, the perfect balance to each other. She encouraged him to be silly with her and live in the moment while he was steadfast and grounding. We pulled into Moses Cone Memorial Park, right as the black clouds were rolling but we knew we could beat them! So we jumped around the various spots as quick as we could, having an absolute blast and finished just in time! It definitely helped prepare us for the hurricane baring down this weekend!

Our babes stayed positive and excited all week, while making the necessary precautions just in case the storm hit hard, but to our delight the clouds just rolled passed. The Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden luckily has several incredibly beautiful indoor locations to work with so we weren’t concerned about the pending storm, just a little bummed. Saturday morning, however, Lisa was just as bright and bubbly as she was when I first met her. And Mike is so chill, I don’t think anything could upset him. Fortunately we were able to follow the plan exactly and the sun came out making an already perfect day simply magical.

After a sweet first look with her father we made our way to the Conservatory so our babes could share a first look and private vow reading. All nerves were washed away as they shared their hearts with each other, laughed about inside jokes, lipstick and the giant machines trimming trees right where they planned to meet.

Next up the wedding party and family joined for photos, hyped them up, laughed, joked and touched up their final details preparing them for the ceremony and party to follow.

His dad officiated a beautiful ceremony speaking of their growth together through the years, conflict resolution beyond their years and fun competition along the way. Their siblings shared moving readings while every guest grew to love them even more.

After some fun toasts and formal dances the party really started! Chad with Split Second Sound read the room perfectly and the dance floor stayed full for FOUR fun filled hours! (in case you’ve not been to 400 weddings like I have, dance floors tend to wane after 2-3 hours, 4 is super impressive!)

As the night came to a close, we snuck away for a few private photos, they shared a sweet final dance and made it to the sparklers right as they blew out! Lol! But that only made everyone laugh harder and celebrate louder. These babes have an incredible crew around them and it was an honor to be a part of such a special day!

Instagram handles for all Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue: @danielstowebotanicalgarden 

Planning: @honeyidoweddings

HMU: @amycastro_wedding_hmua

Florals: @birch.nwillow

Rentals: @partyreflections

Video: @shutterandsound

DJ: @splitsecondsound

Catering: @bestimpressionscaterers

Meghanne and Dan's Wedding at Fort Fisher Aquarium

These two adventurous babes love hiking and all things outdoors. (My favorite kind of course) When I first met Dan it was to hike to the very specific proposal spot he had in mind at Table Rock. It was off the main trail and I honestly never would have found it without the pre-hike but boy does he know how to choose them! Vast views of the gorge and an incredible rock outcropping. When the day arrived, however, the fog so so thick you could barely see 10 feet in front of you. No matter, we stayed the course and had an incredible, unique experience anyway. They chose to spread the ashes of their beloved dog Rilla that day as well, making the memory extra special.

As recounted during the reception dinner, Dan’s first big gift to Meghanne when they were dating was to replace the faux pearl earrings she always wore with real ones. They became a special symbol of their relationship after that so she covered the getting ready robe, the dress and bouquet in pearls. And wore the special earrings of course. (Which she *may or may not have forgotten in Colorado and had to have a friend go on a search and rescue mission before the wedding.) ;)

The whole family participated in making the big day happen. (Including the groom!) From cooking the lasagna meal for the rehearsal dinner to the short ribs and mashed potatoes for the reception as well as dozens of cookies. Their dear friend Kyle officiated and her dog trainer friend Ale managed her sweet service dog Shiloh the whole day.

After the father-daughter first look, we drove to the maritime forest nearby for the couple’s first look and all the portraits, and while the rain continued to drizzle on us, everyone kept high spirits and celebrated with them without complaint.

Meg and Dan had their first date at the NC Aquarium at Fort Fisher and thought it would be perfect for the ceremony. The guests had so much fun wandering around the exhibits before and after the ceremony.

After the main wedding festivities were complete, we drove back to the beach for some fun trash the dress photos, but it was already pitch dark outside so we elicited the help of the wedding party to shine lights for us as we climbed the rock barrier. With high tide in full force we couldn’t reach the beach, but it didn’t matter, the smashing waves made for some epic photos on the rocks. It was a perfect day filled with an incredible group of family and friends.

You guys, thank you for trusting me with your memories!

Instagram handles for all Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue: @ncaquariymff 

Dress: @vowdweddings

Suit: @menswarehouse

Ring: @jewelsmithnc

Make up: @beauty.by.emilywade

Hair: @kengmakeupman

Pup’s Flower Collar: @bluedingostudios

Florals: @verzaalsflorist

Officiant: Kyle Wilkinson

Rentals: @lltentandpartyrentals

Best Locations in the High Country for a Photoshoot

“Because in the end you won’t remember the time you spent working in the office or mowing your lawn. Climb the Mountain.”

— Jack Kerouac

Beacon Heights (Parkway mile 305.2) 30-45 min Roundtrip hike, No restrooms

Whether you’re here for a family session, engagement session, as a graduating senior, surprise proposal, extended family, anniversary or you’d like head shots, there are several things to consider in your photography location. If you’re here on vacation to see the mountains, you’ll likely want to incorporate those in the background, but not all locations have easy access. If you live here and see the mountains every day, maybe you’d be more into a waterfall, also a more difficult access. If you’ve got 30 people to organize and at least half of them are not into the idea of shooting at all, maybe the driveway at your rental cabin will be just fine so long as everyone shows up. Whatever your situation, I’m happy to help you navigate what’s best for you.

Moses Cone Memorial Park (Parkway mile 294) No hike, Paved Sidewalks, Restrooms.

Time of day

I will forever be an advocate for Golden Hour. That can be first 90 minutes of the day after the sun rises, or the last 90 before it sets. In the best conditions on a perfect day, you cannot beat light which is flattering in every way possible. Blue hour just before/after can also add a unique light to your images. If the sky is cloudy, really any time of day will look about the same, so we can be flexible if it’s calling for rain at a certain time. That said, our schedules don’t always align to make this time possible. If that’s the case I’ll help you navigate a location in the best lighting possible. Capturing the moment is more important than the light or the location.

Rough Ridge (Parkway Mile 302.8) 45-60 min Roundtrip Hike, No restrooms

Tourists/Parking

Many of the more popular locations such as Rough Ridge above are EXTREMELY crowded in the fall, on weekends and at sunset. As such I will always advise against these locations during these times. If you’re open to a different time of year/week and open to sunrise, we can certainly try it then.

Season

Depending on the time of year the sun will rise and set at drastically different times. I will help you plan accordingly. If you’d like snow, that is definitely possible, but only about 5-10 days out of the year. You have to be on my waiting list and ready to shoot usually within 24 hours notice. Sometimes the forecast is accurate, sometimes we get rain or sleet and have to reschedule. We both have to be super flexible.

Various Locations Downtown Banner Elk.

The age/size of your crew

If this is an engagement session, the sky is the limit. If we’re talking 30 people of all generations, shapes and sizes, I will happily advise you on the locations that will accommodate you best. Moses Cone and the various town parks tend to be best if your home is not well suited. You will know your crew better than me though, if everyone is down for a hike, like Roan Mountain below, you know I am.

Roan Mountain, Carver’s Gap. Tennessee Border. As little as 5 min, as much as the entire Appalachian Trail. Restrooms.

“Attitude is the difference between an ordeal and an adventure”

— Bob Bitchin

Not everything will go perfectly… and that’s perfectly fine. If it rains we will adapt. If you’re running behind, don’t let it ruin your day, I'm so easy going, I’m happy to get work done on my phone while I wait. If the dress doesn’t fit perfectly, maybe send me a quick photo of what’s wrong with it before you switch outfits, chances are I can fix it in photoshop. All that to say, if you just show up, as you are, willing to have a new experience, we will have a great time and make some memories no matter the circumstances. But if you show up stressed out, with various expectations of exactly how everything will play out… chances are you will be disappointed.

Below we have 5 different surprise proposals at Grandfather Mountain (and a wedding). The winds at the wedding were so strong, her dress blew over her head three times. We all just laughed it off and kept shooting and they have a ton of fun blooper photos. Three of the summer couples made it to Calloway Peak for their wedding proposal as intended, no problems. The other two autumn/spring couples had hoped to hike the peak but got major fog, rain or ice that day and we had to stick to the bridge for safety. All turned out beautifully of course and she still said yes ;)

So let’s just agree to show up as our most authentic selves and see what kind of adventure we can have. :)

Grandfather Mountain Bridge + Ladders Trail to McRae Peak. 5min to Bridge. 45-60min each way to peak. Restrooms. $30 admission.

Below are a few other popular locations for a photoshoot in Boone, Blowing Rock, Banner Elk and elsewhere in the High Country.

Watauga Lake. Just over the Tennessee border. Several inputs with restrooms. BYO Canoe.

Surprise Proposal at Linville Falls Winery, Banner Elk Winery and Grandfather Mountain Winery.

Flat Rock (Parkway Mile 308.3) Further south, but usually far less crowded. 30min round trip hike. No restrooms.

Otter Falls in Seven Devils. 45-60 min round trip hike, pretty steep. No restrooms.

Brown Mountain Beach Resort. Lenoir. Appointment only. Minimal hiking. Restrooms on site. (You should totally stay in one of their YURTS!)

Arborcrest Gardens. Downtown Boone. Appointment Only. As little as 5min walking, as much as 90, pending preference. Restrooms.

McRae Meadows at the base of Grandfather Mountain. No hike. No restrooms.

An unnamed field at the top of Beech Mountain Near the Pinnacle Inn. No hike. No restrooms. Parking for only 2-3 cars.

The Mill Pond in Downtown Banner Elk. No hike, just walking over these rocks. No restrooms.

The Blowing Rock. Paved sidewalks, no hike. Restrooms. $9 admission.

Mountain Magic Resort. LOTS of fun options here, but you need to rent one of their Airbnbs for the night. Totally worth it.

Hawksbill. 2-3 hour roundtrip. 4x4 needed to get to trailhead. Portapotty at trailhead. Parking for less than 10 cars.

If you’d like tips on other hikes in the High Country Area just let me know! I am familiar with most of them, just may not have captured a photoshoot there.

Compression falls in the iphone photo below, for example, is one of the most difficult short hikes in the area, requiring ropes to climb the very steep bank down, but the epic waterfall is worth it. You’d just have to change clothes and dry off all the sweat and mud after the hike before photos. So you might be better off just bringing your bathing suit and cooler and enjoying the day. Save the photoshoot for another time. (no restrooms there btw)

Counter Clockwise: Laurel Fork Falls, Tennessee. 60-90min round trip. No restrooms. Very steep. Crab Orchard Falls Valle Crucis. 45-60min round trip. No restrooms. Compression Falls 60-90min round trip. No restrooms. Very steep with ropes. 4x4 recommended for parking. No restrooms.

This local girl loves each and every location up here and I’ll be happy to guide you to any of them. (or experience them for the first time with you if you’ve found something new to me!) You can contact me here, or find me on instagram at @cynthiajviola.

A Letter to my 20 Year old Self at 40

“I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again”

— Eric Roth

Definitely get the racecar. And obviously the underglow that NEEDS to go with it. Get the tats and dye the hair, the costumes, and anything else that puts a smile on your face. And don’t ever let anyone look down on you because you make different choices. Actually, correction…you can’t control how other people feel. Let them look down on you if they must, but you control how that makes YOU feel. Your initial gut response might take you by surprise, but after that, you have the power to decide if you want to feel differently.

Take the trip and make the first move. Take a year off…or 3. Travel the world first. Get your education from experience and immersion first. Then add the books that help you go deeper into the experiences you enjoyed the most. (Then keep traveling of course. As often as finances and responsibilities will allow.)

Learn Spanish immediately and regularly. Don’t be lazy. It will never not be useful.

Don’t second guess your gut even if it seems the whole world is against you. (In other words, you do NOT have to be a mother)

Don’t waste one single minute crying over people who can’t love you as you are. You would never be happy changing for them anyway. That doesn’t mean you don’t have room to grow. Always stay open minded, and continue to approach the world with arms wide open, ready to receive anything that comes. But there will just be some, for reasons unknown to you, who simply don’t like you. And that’s ok. They don’t have to. Forcing your way into their world will hurt just as bad as it sounds. Take a breath and let them go.

Get outside every single day. Ground. Hands in the earth, feet in the sand, sun on your face, by whatever means necessary.

Don’t go more than six months without a mentor or being a mentor, or both. Girl you were born to show the world the way. You can’t do that if you’re spiraling. Smack anyone who suggests this process as weak. Literally, smack them. Then give them a big hug and tell them you’re safe. They can be real with you when they don’t feel safe with anyone else. No one else has ever told them that. Which is the other half of that mentor thing. Never stop teaching. Or coaching. Or mentoring. Or sitting and listening. Or writing. Or painting. Or whatever it looks like in each of it’s seasons. You have so many unique life experiences and perspectives to share. Keeping them inside robs the world of your gift, and you of your joy.

Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. They’ll come flying at you everyday anyway, if you can accept and learn from them rather than trying (and failing) to avoid them, you’ll grow faster. And for the love of God, own them and apologize. Defensiveness does not protect you like you think it does. It robs you of a chance to grow, thereby making you weaker and prone to make the same mistake again.

All of this to say, there is no right way to live your life and anyone who tries to tell you differently does not have your best interest in mind. Exploration and authenticity drive you more than anything and so long as you stay true to that, do your best not to hurt anyone and try as many new things as you’re able, you will live a grand and beautiful life. I’m excited for you.

Tori and Zach's Wedding in Lake Anna, Virginia

“The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again”

— Charles Dickens

Oh my goodness, where to even begin? An incredible linking of families brought me to this perfect weekend. Let’s see if I can remember the order correctly.

I met the Sloane family first, and fell in love with Brittany as she was a budding photographer. We became fast friends and began second shooting weddings for each other and a few years later I captured her younger sister Lauren’s wedding in Georgia. There I met her bridesmaid and cousin, Bri who flew me out to Colorado to capture her wedding the following year. There I met Bri’s brother and future sister-in-law, Taylor, who had me back down to Georgia for their big day the following year. Tori is the cousin of Josh, Taylor’s husband…and well, you get the idea. We find ourselves in Virginia this weekend and I couldn’t be happier. Tori and Zach’s crew know how to throw a party!

Everything began with a full hibachi dinner on the lawn of the lake house. Complete with sake water guns, egg throwing and of course fire.

Everyone eased into Saturday morning with brunch, games, swimming and preparing for the ceremony. The house was filled with an excited buzz and tons of laughter.

After their ceremony on the lawn with the family, Zach and Tori chose to read private vows to each other on the dock. They both knew they’d be a mess and didn’t want to hold back. They are absolutely precious together and have been through so much in their time together, it was the perfect way to seal the day.

As evening fell, the lake and sky decided to show off and we were even graced with a surprise fireworks show from across the lake! We ran as fast as we could to capture a couple shots!

Sunday the happy couple treated everyone to a day on the lake and it was a perfect closing to an incredible weekend. These two are dearly loved by their crew and everyone was overjoyed to celebrate them.

You guys thank you so much for including me in your special day!!

Ashley and Cam's Wedding at The Little Chapel

Where do I even begin? I have been capturing Ashley’s family for at least 10 years. Senior portraits and headshots for all three sisters.,Christmas Parties and family events for her parents, her sister Jessica’s Wedding, her aunt Colleen’s wedding and now her big day. It’s hard not to feel like a part of the family when you’ve experienced so many special milestones together.

For their engagement session in February they chose to use the venue location. And while it was the middle of winter and the greenhouse was still under construction, the space did not disappoint. We exictedly talked about all big plans to come. Fast forward to this weekend…

Cameron and Ashley decided to share private vows before the ceremony so they met in the field in between the the two houses where they were each getting ready. The tension had been rising all morning, as it does at every wedding. But it was instantly released the moment they saw each other, share a hug and reminded each other why they were here.

With the recent passing of Ashley’s sweet father, there were many moments where mom stepped in. She walked her down the aisle and danced the first dance. Her sisters too were there to fill the void and we all felt his presence during speeches and cheers. We all knew he was so proud looking down from his front row seat all day.

Our happy couple now shares a wedding anniversary with her sweet grandparents and they honored them and all the married couples with a special dance during the reception.

Then things got a little rowdy. In the best way possible. Ashley’s brother-in-law Tyler and Cameron battled it out to give her a lap dance. Everyone passed around the bourbon direct from the bottle, cigars came out along with late night french fries and the evening was a complete success.

You guys! Thank you for welcoming me into your family so long ago! I look forward to all the future celebrations! Until next time!!

Instagram handles for all Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola

Venue/Officiant: @thelittlechapel 

Planning/catering/bar/florist: @bluebirdevents_sc

HMUr: @Taylorpressleyartistry and @artistrybybriiii

Get away Car: @triadecoadventures 

Rentals: @cookerentalsdenver

DJ: @martynightengale

Cake: Sweet Shoppe Bakery Inc

Jen and Justin's Spring Wedding at Overlook Barn

“The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for a newer and richer experience”

— E. Roosevelt

I didn’t have a chance to meet Jen and Justin before the big day, but it didn’t matter, from the moment we started chatting, we knew we’d be a perfect fit. They LOVE the mountains just as much as I do but also live in Raleigh, my second love. They love all things outdoors and aren’t afraid to bust a move on the dance floor. As they always vacation in Banner Elk, it was very special for them to get married here and Overlook Barn never disappoints.

Justin proposed on the same day they closed on their first home together and they both reminisced about it during the private vows. Sweet Justin was nearly bursting at the seams before this moment, but after they had time to share their love and a few stories from the morning, everything shifted and only excitement filled the air. Jen kept repeating she was ready to get started. So off we went!

The winds were picking up just as everyone lined up for the ceremony and it took a whole team of friends, family and Elegant Events Staff to hold the Arbor in place. It only served to add to the adventure of it all though. We got them down the aisle and all the guests secured in the barn before the rains came.

The fog was rolling in hard the night before but we weren’t concerned. I’ve managed mountain top fog many times. When it shifted to black clouds right before the Mr. and Mrs. portraits I looked at Jen and said we can see if it passes and risk it never stopping…or make a run for it.

Obviously we ran.

Rain turned to hail and hail turned to a rainbow. We were all soaked from head to toe but filled with great big belly laughs. Her dress must have gained an extra 15 pounds with the water weight but she took it like a champ then skipped off to the dance floor!

Fortunately the rain stopped, and as the fog rolled back in, it brought with it the Northern Lights!! We couldn’t see them in their entirety, but very much appreciated the pop of color! We ran back and forth between Jen’s favorite songs and a new color in the sky!

What an incredible adventure this weekend turned out to be! All four seasons in one day! 10/10 would do it again next weekend!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola with Michael Freas

Venue: @overlookbarn

Planner: @eleganteventweddings 

Dress: @essenseofaustralia from @carolinabridalworld

Suits: @black_tie

Rings: @kayjewelers

Florals: @bouquet_florist_boone

HMU: @bella_bridalartistry

Catering: @gadabouts_catering

Cake: @choicecakes1

Video: @HoneyDewFilms

Rentals: @thesummitwoodworks

Rehearsal @stonewallsrestaurantnc

Officiant: Bruce King

DJ: @djdaybreak

Sonia and Michael's Wedding at the Oaks at Salem

“Love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it”

— Rabindranath Tagore

Michael and Sonia met at a Jazz Bar on Bourbon street. OR at an orthopedics conference where they were both presenting their work from graduate school. (depends on who you ask). After thriving through Covid together they knew this was real and we started planning all the things.

As Duke is near and dear to their hearts we captured their engagement between Sarah P. Duke Gardens and Duke Chapel. And all their wedding festivities were in and around Durham.

I initially met the rest of their family at the Mehndi ceremony at their home. It never ceases to overwhelm me as couples invite me into these sacred and life giving moments in their lives. Their families were already familiar with each other and blended easily as her family taught his, with great love, the meaning behind each moment.

A Mehndi is a way of wishing the couple health and prosperity as they make the next step into marriage but I love how it forces them to rely on the help of their friends and family to feed them, fix their hair, assist with potty breaks, shoe removal and communication. It forces them to slow down, not check their phone and simply be present with each other and their family while the henna dries.

I would love to see more of this for all my couples. Michael’s friends and family were certainly excited as they learned and experienced each new tradition.

As for their Haldi Ceremony, the celebrations continued and the familiarity with each others’ families grew. As each member gently and intentionally placed the turmeric and other spices on their bodies for wellness and good fortune, it quickly turned to a fun filled smearing of the yogurt and spices all over them to ensure the best wedding day “glow.” Everyone had a blast!

The wedding day welcomed more and more family and friends into the fold as they danced and laughed through each ritual and tradition. Michael and his crew had a blast celebrating his Baraat wedding entrance and her family greeted him with open arms.

Michael even included our very Southern tradition of burying the bourbon on the ceremony grounds and digging it up to ensure no rain on the wedding day. (it worked!) Both being proficient at ballroom dancing, they dazzled their guests during the reception and also tipped their hats to their NOLA beginnings and included a beignet truck instead of cake for their desserts!

You guys thank you so much for inviting us to be a part of your big weekend!

Instagram Handles for all the Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola with @jhaganphotog

Ceremony Venue: @oaksatsalem 

Reception Venue: @durhamcookery

Planning: @southernskiesevents

HMU: @weddedkiss

Henna: @hennaartbynadia and @mysticalhennabypriya

Florals: @beckettfloral

DJ: @dowoakevents

Catering: @limenlemon_indiangrill and @rocky_top_caters and @nukkad.usa

Bar: @withatwistbartendingservice

Dessert: @squaredoughnuts

Rentals: @curatedeventsraleigh, @americanpartyrentals and @greenhousepickersisters

Puppy Care: @barkandbonenc

Fashion: @Indochino and @bhldn

Rings: @emilychelseajewelry, @brilliantearth and @Thorum 

Officiant: Priya Amaresh

Haldi Venue: @achoteldurham

Time to Pop the Big Question!

“Boldness be my friend”

— Skakespeare

You’ve got this my friend! And I’m here to help! This day has been building for a long time and I’m sure you’ve thought through every reason why you love this person and every reason why now is the time to pop the question.

What you maybe haven’t thought through as much, is HOW, WHEN, and WHERE to do it! That’s where I come in. I want this moment to be perfect for you and I will do whatever it takes to make your vision come to life. Below you will find a few common scenarios with photos to help you visualize what this might look like for you and your love, but know that I am willing to do something completely different if these don’t quite resonate.

Scenario 1: I am hiding in the Bushes.

In this scenario, you and I will predetermine exactly where I will be hiding, and exactly where you will be standing to pop the question. I will remain hidden through the entire moment, and then pop out of the bushes to say congrats and hello and then take you guys around the area for a few more “posed” photos.

Scenario 2: I am a “Nature Photographer”

In this scenario, I will get into place before you, set up a tripod to look more like a nature photographer who happens to be on location that day. We will have basic greetings when you guys walk close enough to me and I will offer to capture a few photos for you and email them. Once I put you into place and snag a basic photo or two, that will be your cue to pop the question.

Scenario 3: A pre-planned Couple Shoot

In this scenario you have to figure out WHY you’re having a couple’s shoot so as not to alert them. Some have “won a giveaway,” some were “gifted” a shoot from their parents, some do regular shoots together anyway and it’s not out of the ordinary at all. Half way through the shoot once we have reached the location you and I discussed in advance I’ll offer to do individual headshots of each of you and while I have their attention, you’ll get into position.

Other things to consider:

• Do you want to hike to reach the view, or would you rather step out of the car and not risk getting sweaty or your outfits messy? The three shoots above all have views without the hike.

• Do you want to be in regular clothes to not alert them, or have an excuse to dress up? (dinner afterwards for example)

• The weather doesn’t always cooperate. I’m ready to be flexible with date and time and location, but you need to manage expectations if it doesn’t play out exactly like you envision it. Often the crazy mountain weather simply makes for a better story afterward anyway. The cuties below were published in a magazine after the weather we encountered.

Additionally, you may want your day to stand out from the rest. Fancy proposing in a canoe? Want to pop a bottle of champagne to celebrate? Need me to set up a sign or flowers? I’m more than willing to work with whatever you can come up with.

No matter what, it’s going to be perfect. You are going to be nervous and something is inevitably going to have to change last minute, but it will still be perfect. I’ve got you and I’m so excited to help you make it a moment you’ll never forget.

Alex and Daniel's Wedding at the Oaks at Salem

“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction”

— Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Where to begin with these two? I need to start with Toni and Kim as I met Alex’s parents first, and I must say, I absolutely fell in love with them and wanted to adopt them immediately. We got to hang out at the Oaks a couple times during the planning process including an adorable video chat with Alex (on the West Coast) and I knew we would all be friends for life. The way they cared for each other and cared about every detail along the way was incredibly sweet. It was no surprise when I met Daniel and his parents on the wedding day, I loved them instantly as well. Everyone was so invested in this sweet couple. From running errands, to making sure they had drinks and getting hyped over chants and cheers for photos!

Thennnn came the first looks. I could barely see to keep shooting. Mom made sure she had each borrowed and blue item while Dad wiped her tears. Daniel left her speechless and then they were ready to party.

This crew did not disappoint. If I didn’t know any better I’d say every single one of them was a paid professional hype man. They brought all the excitement to the day and made sure these babes were overwhelmed with love. (not to mention SIX heartfelt speeches during dinner!)

What an incredible weekend Alex and Daniel!! Thank you so much for including me!! It was an honor to witness your love and vast friendships. You have an amazing group surrounding you.

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Christina Perkins

Venue : The Oaks at Salem

Dress: Martina Liana at Coastal Knot

Rings: Derco Diamonds

Hair: Mena Garcia Beauty

Make Up: Mena Garcia Beauty

Florist: Meristem Floral

Officiant: Kevin Grant

Live Music: Udeshi Hargett Violinist

DJ: All Events DJs

Video: Thomas Blake Films

Catering: Catering By Design

Rentals: Curated Events