I’m not sure where to even begin with these gorgeous babes! We met at United Fitness Crossfit a few years ago and as I traveled back and forth to Raleigh from Boone I would always drop in and work out with them and the rest of the crew, and take photos for the gym. It has always been a second home for me. I was ecstatic when Phil told me he was ready to begin scheming his proposal to Ashley. We had discussed something in the mountains first, but it ended up working better to capture that moment in Raleigh, then do the official engagement session in the mountains later… and well, as you can see… excellent choice. :)

Fast forward to the big day. They chose one of Raleigh’s newest wedding venues, The Maxwell, and I must say, I absolutely adore it! Very open and bright, easily transitions both indoor or out with the weather and it’s neutral colors accommodate any wedding design.

They shared a very sweet first look right on the ceremony aisle followed by their own personal vows to each other. They reminisced how it was an unlikely fit in the beginning due to their differences, but found gratitude in how those differences helped them balance one another and promised to continue to growing in ways that would compliment the other.

Ashley had family flying in from Malaysia (as well as several back home watching via live feed). She wanted to have a proper tea ceremony symbolizing the union of two families, while celebrating her Chinese heritage and introducing Phil’s family as well. I was honored to witness it; I love learning how other cultures celebrate the beginning of their new life together.

It begins with the couple honoring their elders on both sides by serving tea, then they exchange blessings and gratitudes as well as special gifts. Next the younger siblings and cousins of the couple then take their turn to honor the couple, as their elders, in the same way.

The love between the two families was palpable in this moment as they each shared gratitude, not only for the couple, but each other. Lots of laughter and tears, hugs and tea :)

Oh my goodness you two!! Thank you so much for inviting me on this journey with you!! I cannot wait to see all that is to follow! (If you ever need me to join you in Malaysia, I could make that happen… just sayin) ;)

Love you both!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Mandy with Timeless Love NC

Venue : The Maxwell

Dress: Dentelle Bridal from Malaysia

Suit: Men's Warehouse

Hair and Make Up: Pinup bridal

Florist: Teacup Florals

Officiant: Adam Davenport

DJ: Yes Raleigh

Catering: Cateringworks